Sunday, October 31, 2010

happy halloween, yo

This was the first year we participated in Trick-or-Treating. I'm not super into Halloween, but we wanted Roman to experience it and we had a great time!

Roman's really into Peter Pan so he was Captain Hook...kind of. We may watch Peter Pan once a day... He also thinks that anything with a skull and cross bone on it is Captain Hook, so I guess Viggo was also Captain Hook for Halloween.
(Every time I told him to smile, he just stuck out his tongue. )

We met up with the Vasquez clan in their old neighborhood on Maxwell. Townes was a cowboy and Finch was a bumblebee. Too cute for words I might add. It took Roman a few houses to understand what was going on. He kept trying to go inside each house as if we were just going there to play. I guess I should start teaching him about stranger danger!

Most of the candy he got he couldn't eat, but thank heaven for my thoughtful mother in law. She bought a whole bag of skittles and starbursts thinking of Roman. Love her!

We headed over to my moms after about an hour or so. She wanted to see the littles all dressed up.
Sweet Sophia was a bear and her adorable mama was Velma from Scooby Doo. Thad was supposed to be Shaggy, but was lacking inspiration and motivation, I guess.
Then yesterday we went down to South Ames in search of a Pirate Ship we had heard about. I guess this guy and his son took three years to build it. We thought Roman would love it since he adores Captain Hook. Not. He was super scared. Poor guy.
Once we left he kept saying 'I scared,' or 'dat scared me.' I felt like a terrible mama.  For the record, we didn't know there were going to be skeleton pirates. And yes, he woke up a lot last night. Oops.

We ended last night with family movie night. What movie did we watch, you ask. Peter Pan. 

Monday, October 18, 2010

if you give a kid a ninja turtle...

...bedtime is no longer looked down upon, even in the eyes of a two-year-old. Instead, after books are read, prayers are said and a tired little soul lays down, APPARENTLY, drifting off to sleep is not so bad. No tears, no tired throats from 'disapproving' for a good half hour, no 'stay-strong-mama' or 'don't-go-snuggle-him-to-sleep', self talks. No, none of that. Just quiet.

Thursday night, before we tucked our RomanBells into bed, he went down to the basement with Cindy and Jeff and mustered through the collection of toys and other random goods that have found a home down there. I was feeding Viggo on the couch when I heard Jeff say 'Want to show mama?' They came over, Jeff, hands full of Roman, and Roman, hands full of Ninja Turtles.
My heart smiled.

Jeff was about Roman's age, or a little older, maybe, he was head over heels in love with these turtles in a half shell. And you can't really say you love something until you sleep on it. Meaning every night as a little boy, Jeff would snuggle up with his tiny versions of the 'crime fighting' hero's, while sleeping on his TMNT sheets. Because, really, nothing bad could happen to you if your snoozing with (and on) Donatello, Leonardo, Michelangelo, and Raphael. It's like a double dose of security...times four...or something. Regardless, Roman will be using said sheets when his time comes.
Back to bedtime...when it was time for bed, Roman took the Ninja Turtles with him to read books with Jeff. After he read and they prayed, Jeff laid him in his bed, and while he normally starts protesting immediately, he didn't make a peep. He just rolled onto his side, closed is eyes and fell asleep.Who knew. When I checked on him before I went to bed he was laying on his stomach, one hand clutching one turtle close to his face, the other hand holding another turtle, and a third turtle resting against his side. He was obviously snuggling them. (I'm super bummed I don't have a photo, but you know how it is when they sleep...you don't want to risk ANYTHING that may wake them up. And this boy is a light sleeper.)


We have TMNT fever. 

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

enjoying the small things

It's been a challenging 10 weeks and I've been trying to focus on what's good. Here is what I'm loving.

new fall nail polish.
Berry Hard is the name. I.Love.It. Thank you, Target for carrying some great nail polish.

holiday candles.
Picked up this beauty at TJMaxx this weekend. The warm scent of pear is now filling my the Barton's home.

a very fat two month old.
This boy is happy. He smiles all the time and it melts my heart. He's around the 16 pound mark and I still need to measure how long he is...
I could snuggle him to death.


apple orchards.

 



dates with my boy.
On this particular date last week, we decided to add to or pumpkin collection. Roman took his time deciding which ones were worthy of taking home...

...and sat on them to let me know 'this was it!'

Can I get an 'Amen!' for Ziel's Pumpkin Farm! $2 pumpkins, plus 3/$1 decorative gourds and much more. Woot!


truth.
Because I need to hear it often. Postpartum depression is fantastically challenging to deal with. But there is comfort in knowing that God has given His Word and some fabulous friends to speak truth into my life during this really crappy time. :) (in a nutshell).


baby feet...especially in festive jambos.

(I know this isn't of his feet, but I couldn't help myself.)


Tuesday, September 28, 2010

We be Gettin' Festive

Ah, Fall is here. Apple cider, coffee with my new favorite creamer, sweaters, scarves, coffee, skinny jeans, crisp mornings, coffee, season appropriate sleepwear. I.Love.Fall....and coffee.

If the rest of the year could stay like this week, that would be great. Minus the bugs, of course. I'm pretty sure this is, by far, my favorite time of year. I would totally throw up the Christmas tree the day after Halloween if my husband would go along with it...and I may just try it this year. There is just something about this season that brings a warmth of comfort to my soul. I start thinking about all the family gatherings we'll be attending, the stories to be shared, yummy food to be eaten, a 'cinnamon buns' scented candle crackling, watching the littles open presents and eat candy 'til their sick to their stomachs...okay, my littles won't be doing that just yet, but I can't wait for when they do. It all brings my heart to a flutter.

What better way to show off our love for the upcoming holidays than wearing them on our jambos.
Enter cuteness:
 His cheeks are delicious, if you were wondering.
I mean, c'mon. Roman's hair. When without product it's like something out of 1974. It wants to split right down the middle and has potential to get like this. Not that I'd let it. Just sayin'. Every time we're out and about there's at least one person that lets me know of their approval of his hair. I love it.

And this is my new favorite coffee creamer. I wasn't gonna leave ya hanging. It's simply divine.
Mmmm, if it wasn't eleven o'clock in the evening I'd be drinking some. And seeing as though it's getting to be quite late, I'd better hit the sack. New goal: in bed by eleven, maybe even ten. I want to start getting up around six am to have my quiet time and time to focus for the day. Goal not achieved tonight. Later!

Totally rocked it

Well the weekend is gone. Another week is upon us and I have two sickies. Should be an interesting one.

Anyway.

Friday was a monumental day for me. I have been dying to get the boys Fall/Winter clothing and decided I wanted to go to BabyGap at Jordan Creek to see what was on sale. Originally I didn't want to do this alone because the thought of a potential toddler tantrum and infant drama in a very public setting haunted me. Jeff was unable to come because of the timing, which was a huge disappointment, but in the end I got up the courage and went anyway.

Roman was in a goofy mood and didn't nap at all. We tried putting him down twice but he had other plans. Plans which consisted of jumping in his crib and screaming and cracking himself up. Viggo wasn't napping when I had thought he might and so instead of wasting the rest of Friday afternoon I packed up the kids and trucked it solo to Des Moines.

The drive down was heavenly. Both Roman and Viggo napped in the car. When we got to the mall I squished V in the sling (in which he slept the entire time Roman and I shopped) and strapped Roman in the stroller (which took me about 20 minutes to get all things situated) and headed in. I could feel eyes watching me. Was I really THAT mom? The mom who appears to have it all together and as though having a toddler and an infant was a breeze? It may have looked like it, but to those who have known me theses last couple months, it's all an illusion. For a moment, though, I was drinking it in. Pretend is fun, and totally necessary at times.

My plan of action was: MOVE FAST. Get in and get out. Looking back I wonder what kind of expression I had on my face. Was it obvious I was on a mission? Probably. But I was, so it would have been a suitable look to sport.

When we entered Baby Gap (extra 40% off sale items!), Viggo started to fuss a bit and I was as calm as could be began to wig out a little. 'Oh crap! Pleeeeease go back to sleep!' And he did so it was a success! Roman scored big. He will soon be showcasing his new skinny jeans and straight legged jeans. He also got a couple waffle knit shirts, a belt and a hoodie. Now all he needs are these shoes and he will be one rad dude. Viggo will also be modeling his new jeans, plus a couple new shirts. I love fall clothes. Now all I need to do is get Jeff and I some season appropriate attire and we'll be good to go.

After Baby Gap, I went to JCrew to see what they had on sale. I scored on a great necklace and a new scarf. Not clothes, I know, but their stuff wasn't on sale enough for me to buy. Plus I had just dropped a good amount on my kids, so I can wait til next month, right?

At this point, Viggo began to stir a bit, so we headed up to the food court, nabbed some fries for Rome to munch on while I fed V, and decided to pack up. Definitely was not going to push my luck! I wasn't going to call it a successful venture until we got home because what if the car ride back was miserable?! But it wasn't, so I rocked it. I did the baby-wearing stroller-pushing mama thing solo and it was awesome. It was just the encouragement I needed to believe I can do this two-children-under-two thing.

Saturday my SIL and her family came to Ames for the UNI/ISU game. We didn't take the boys 'cause I'm a fair weather friend and it was cold and rainy and they had runny noses. So we just chilled Saturday until church. After church we came home and chilled some more. I did, however, discover that Viggo does NOT like dairy. I had a frosty from Wendy's and it did not sit well with him at all. Poor little guy. I even called first nurse because I had such an uneasy feeling from his reaction to it. He's fine now, but I won't be consuming dairy anytime soon, that's for sure.

Yesterday was pretty busy. My sweet, amazing, delicious husband let this lady sleep in w/ the babe until after 9 both mornings. Um, hello? Heaven on earth, I tell ya. And yesterday afternoon I took my V-Bug and cute 9th grade sister back to DSM to find a Homecoming dress. After about three long hours we finally found one she liked, in her size. The girls biggest problem is that she's a size one. Dude.

Now, this talking about Homecoming got me thinking about my freshman year Homecoming dance. I wore a denim skirt, a really weird top, and some boots. And not the kind of boots that you'd think would work with said outfit. APPARENTLY it is now a more formal event and everyone wears something that looks like the mini skirt version of a prom dress. So not only were we trying to find a size one dress, but a size one dress that didn't look like it should be a tunic top. In the end, she got a really cute black dress with some bedazzling bling on the front. It's pretty cute and she looks fabulous in it.

When we got back into town we stopped at Target to get a new crib mattress and monitor for Roman. Leah needed theirs back to prepare for their little due in December. While there, V and I had to make a pit stop to the fitting rooms for dinner and a bowel movement. :)  We scurried ourselves back to the car for a diaper change and a long awaited reunion with my sweet Roman. Came home, ate some dinner (allergy friendly meatloaf, baked potatoes, corn and spinach salad) and put the kids to bed. A good but fast weekend.



Happy week!

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

6 weeks


He's six weeks old and delicious.

All 13 pounds of him.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

A Gentleman's List

I got this idea from a good friend. Her sister has three scrumptious boys and has one of these lists, and I figured since I now have two equally (if not more...but I'm biased) scrumptious boys it would only make sense if I copied her. :) This is just such a genius idea!

It's a list of all the things true gentlemen do/act like. Some serious, some for fun. I'm really excited about starting this list, but I have an extreme case of new-mama-to-two-scrumptious-boys brain, so I thought I'd outsource some ideas. I would LOVE it if you would leave a comment or two or three about how you think a gentleman should act in all areas of his life. :)

Speaking of gentlemen.

Life is grand.